Yours Lovingly

Since the beginning of our childhoods we are all asked , what do you want to be when you grow up , and we excitedly declare that we want to be a soldier , or an astronaut or maybe a painter. There is no thought behind those choices early on in life , they are just mere fascinations and the result of various influences.

 Now what clicked yesterday night suddenly in my brain was that it is a deep rooted belief in our minds that we are not enough in ourselves and when we become something i.e. , an engineer , a lawyer or an actor only then we'll be enough.

 But what in the world even suggests that you are inferior or low as compared to somebody. If you inquire deeply you'll find that there is nothing missing in you , you are beautiful as you are , you don't need any addition to yourself to be complete , nothing is actually missing. The whole identity of men , for example, is attached to money and providing for their close one's. Man is told that his only duty is to earn lots of money and provide for his family and in real life if a man fails to do so his self concept is shattered , (not realizing that all concepts about himself are coming from outside) , he feels like a failure unnecessarily and starts hurting himself with all such thoughts. This not just happens with men but with all the living beings on earth. Everyone is made to believe nonsense about themselves and then expected to do those things even if one doesn't want to do it. 

We are made to feel inferior about ourselves , made to believe that something is missing and then we are shown the way of ambition , big goals and hard work to fill the void in ourselves that never even existed in the first place. Almost every working individual is working not because he loves what he does but because he is made to feel that you are missing something and pursuing this career will make you complete. So deep is the game going on and we are never able to see the whole game that is created knowingly or unknowingly. Life is not meant to be a constant struggle , meeting of targets and goals , or to pursue a goal after another. It is just a simple phenomena to be lived , to be enjoyed and to realize that you do not have any duty or responsibility on this planet , you just have to operate out of love and joy and play hard. You do not have any destination your only duty is to live your life completely and when we try to do that we feel guilt and that my friend forces us to continue down the path of exhaustion. 

Such is the reality of our so called beautiful lives , we dream things that we don't want , run behind careers which we don't like and post on Instagram to show others what a beautiful life we are living but deep within you know the reality behind your actual life .

If you actually felt what i said and you inquire by yourself into things you might get into an existential crisis because all that you have lived wasn't authentic at all. Even i get unnerved at times when i see through things and realize what is happening but if you don't see it then you'll go through years of undeserved hard work and labor.

Just observe nature , look at the trees , the sun , river and the sky. Do they ever seem like doing any hard work or running behind a goal , look at a bird which is fluttering around joyfully whilst singing . The entire existence is celebrating and it is the tragedy of man , who thinks of so highly of himself , to wither away slowly in anxiousness and suffering . It is not your fate to suffer it is just because of stupid notions that you are suffering. 

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I don't have anything specific to share to be honest. It will be very informal as well , let me warn you beforehand. I'm a 20 year old and i don't know what to do with my life . Now it sounds very funny even confusing when someone says i don't know what to do in life , but trust me it can be a huge problem at times. I have a lot of options in front of me but i don't know what makes me feel stuck and not wanting to choose anything. well writing about it actually relieves quite of the stress because it's stressful to see everyone do something with their lives while you just sit watching them and doubting yourself . This blog is actually addressed to me rather to anybody else [ I'm laughing while writing this , don't think that I'm depressed or something] . Life feels weird to me at times and the fault is not completely mine is what i believe . Too much focus is laid upon unnecessary things in life which one might not even want but still ends up pursuing because he doesn't know which path to tread upon. I think the only way is to be in present , stop worrying about future and do something in present which makes you feel meaningful and hopeful . Just like i feel writing my thoughts and listening to TENNESSEE WHISKEY in the background. I don't think life is a problem to be solved but a mystery to be lived because worrying about your future makes you miss out on a lot of things and life is not worth to be left out . So let's just stop worrying your head out and start living with whatever you have and don't make plans for future if you don't know what to do. There is no choice that is perfect actually your mindset makes it right or wrong. So just relax and do whatever comes to you easily......

Yours Lovingly

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